Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Later...

I couldn't write much before because "stuff" was happening, but all is quiet now.  Sort of.

Meg and the children came back from the Heffelman grandparents' neighborhood with lots of goodies and all wired.  Meg was still wearing her bumble-bee outfit from work.  She came home saying that Grandpa Phil (her former father-in-law) made her cry by hugging her and thanking her for working so hard to make the divorce situation work for the children.  It took me back to a day, many years ago, when my father-in-law thanked me for taking such good care of his grandchildren (my step-kids) and making it easy for us all to be together.  I can remember wishing that I had heard it from their father (my then-husband) but I was gratified knowing that someone had noticed how hard I worked at trying to make a good situation for everyone.  Except for the fact that the children no longer live with both parents, nothing else has changed...but it does take all of us to make it all work.  The Heffelman grandparents are on call (since they are retired) in case one of the children gets sick.  The rest of us try to keep all of the bases covered.  It's a huge job!

The Colts play the Patriots this Sunday evening.  I don't know if I can stand to watch!  In the meantime, I am trying to plan for my radio club's Christmas dinner/meeting.  It will be my last stroke as President.  I am bowing out, graciously.  I will not seek, nor will I accept any position as officer for next year.  I need a break!

Need to go get my bath so the doctor won't be grossed out tomorrow morning.  I will probably meet Meg for lunch after the appointment, then stop at the Girl Scout place to get some GS stuff for our little Daisy Girl Scout.  Then home for a nap.  If I don't get a nap, I'm going to be really ticked!

Ciao~

Happy Halloweenie!

How did it get to be Halloween already?  Meg and the children have gone to the other grandparents' neighborhood to get more goodies.  It has been a crazy couple of days!

This would have been my brother's 54th birthday.  He is no longer with us, and that still smarts...but I do think of him each Halloween.  <sigh>

I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow morning.  Decided to take the whole day off, only because I'm tired enough that I don't think it is worth it to attempt to go in to school in the afternoon.  Oh, well! 

The next big occasion is little Ryan's birthday on November 13th, to be celebrated the weekend before.  I suggested to Meg that we look into having it at McDonald's or some other kid place.  She said, "I presume that means you don't want to have it here."  Well...I'd love to have it here.  I'm just trying to figure out how we could get the place clean enough to have guests!  Ryan will be 4.  The question is, will we survive??

 

Friday, October 26, 2007

Blurrrrrr...

The week has been a blur of activity.  At school, things have been so busy that I haven't even had time to look at the news websites.  I am still mopping up after parent conferences with a couple of parents who need/want me to communicate with them on a daily basis about their child's grades/assignments.  Apparently the new software that we are working with isn't doing everything it's supposed to do.  I would tear my hair out, but I don't have much to rip!

Meg had a parent conference for Robin this week.  The news is good.  She is cooperative and hard working at school.  Doing well!  Today was the Kindergarten's Red Ribbon Walk (drug awareness).  The children walked around Swinford Park behind the Kindergarten Center/High School.  Grandma and Grandpa H. joined Robin, so she was a happy little girl.  Little Ryan can't compete with Robbie's school things, so he has to be louder and more spectacular (SpiderMan, etc.) in order to find a niche for himself. 

Several days ago, I got hit by an intestinal thing at the dinner table, so I went right to bed.  By the next morning, I was fine.  In fact, it was as if the whole thing hadn't happened.  That is the way I've been thinking about the craniotomy deal.  I have been so well that it is hard to remember that it occurred.  Of course, there are the scars...

Something has to happen here if we are to remain together in this little house.  I am looking into making the garage into a bedroom.  Don't know how many $$ it will take, and don't know where the money would come from...but we have to find private spaces for everyone.  Time will tell!

We are also looking at new holiday traditions.  This will be the first round of winter holidays since Meg and Nate have been divorced...and now the fun begins.  Who will be where, when?  I went through this when I was first divorced.  I think I got through it better than Meg did.  The children will be the main focus.  The rest of us, unfortunately, will manage...because we can.  Meg has had some trouble with events where "happy couples" show up.  Intellectually, she knows that there is no such thing, and that what one sees on the outside is not necessarily what happens on the inside.  Still, I understand her emotions.  Been there, done that!

Last weekend, we took Meg's car to the repair shop during my fall break so the heat could be fixed.  The dudes put in a new heater core to the tune of $600...but the problem still isn't fixed.  The car will go back to them, but it isn't easy.  Being without one car messes up everything for awhile.  Ugh!

For the first time in three weeks, both of the children will be in Muncie to see their father for the weekend.   I'm not sure how I will function!  The bed all to myself?  Wonderful!  I love my grandchildren, but I have to admit that it feels good to have the house to myself for a day or two.  More so for Meg!

More tomorrow...

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Ack!

It's been a few days since I have posted here.  It's been a busy week!  I don't have much "grown up" time these days--or spare time at all.  Will try to find some time tonight to bore you with the details of my life in the slow lane.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Destination: Everywhere!

I was up at 8:00 this morning, before the rest, to go get my hairs cut.  (All three of them.)  I brought cinnamon melts home from McD's.  Meg and Robin were up and had cereal.  Oh, well!  Robin and I went out into the yard to gather "firewood" for later in the day.  Lots of burnable limbs and branches!

The ultimate destination of the day was to be Beasley's Orchard in Danville, IN...so we headed out.  First, we stopped at JoAnn Fabrics in Avon, to find some vinyl to cover the kitchen chairs with.  (The previous cover job has been ruined by kid spills.)  Then, since it was lunchtime, we stopped at Wendy's.  Then the Meijer gas station to fill up the buggy.  Next, we stopped at Cookie Cutters to get Robin's hair cut.  (She is so bad about letting anyone brush her hair that Meg decided to get it cut short.  It's cute!)  After Cookie Cutters, we stopped at Sears Hardware so I could look for replacement blades for a cutter that I had.  Next stop:  Meg's bank to deposit some funds.  FINALLY, we got to the orchard.  Took a hayride to the pumpkin patch, checked out the store there, then headed to the garage sale of a ham friend of mine.  Bought some "Spidey" jammies for Ryan...then pointed the car back toward Plainfield via the country to look at the fall foliage.  We decided to stop to get KFC to take home...then got home to eat it.  Thereafter, Robin and I went back out to Wal-Mart to pick up things we needed for our "campfire" on the patio.  When we got home for good, we started a fire in the burner and had s'mores.  As near as I can figure it, we went at least ten places today.  Whew!

The plan for tomorrow is to take Robin to the zoo.  I really would like to stay home.  There is so much to do.  It is supposed to be a lovely day, however...so maybe it would be good to go with them.  I'm just too tired to think about it right now!

I called my sister tonight.  Haven't seen her online or heard from her in awhile.  Just wanted to make sure she was still among the living.  She is!  I love you, Shari.  We will be in touch about the holidays.  Just don't know how things will go...

Later...

 

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Kid Trade, the Sequel

Last weekend, we had Ryan while Robin spent the weekend with Daddy.  This weekend, Robin is here.  Ryan starts out with his Heffelman grandparents this evening, then goes to Daddy's in Muncie tomorrow with them. 

After we dropped Ry off, we went to a Chinese restaurant (which Robin likes), then went to the video store to pick up something she'd like to watch...and took a short trip to the grocery store to get marshmallows.  We lit a fire in the patio burner, roasted marshmallows, and made s'mores.  Robin is more cautious than her brother of the week before.  She didn't dance around the fire trying to make it more and higher.  She just liked roasting the marshmallows!  We also did a few leftover Fourth of July sparklers.  I think she thought it was a special night.  That was the general idea!

Have a lovely Saturday!

 

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Fall Break

Fall Break in Indiana is a 4-day weekend that used to be reserved for statewide teacher workshops.  No one does that anymore.  We just have four days off during a pretty time of the year, but since it comes directly after the end of the first grading period--and parent conferences--I think people just fall into a dead heap!

I went in to school a few minutes early on Tuesday thinking that I would get the jump on getting my grades in, since the software failure of the day before.  The computer dude met me in the hall and informed me that it wasn't fixed yet.  He had logged onto my computer as him--a system administrator--just so I could enter my grades.  But there was still one grade book/class that even he couldn't seem to make work.  At issue is the fact that I take two grades:  spelling and language arts.  Spelling is only 20% of the overall grade; language arts is 80%.  I had to set the categories by weight, then go back and tell each assignment what weight it carried.  One grade book was okay because it doesn't have assignments that carry different weights.  The IT guy and one of the school secretaries were going to work on the one class that "we" couldn't do while I worked on the other four.  I got my part done within two class periods.  Andrew (the IT guy) came in and asked me to verify the weight categories for the assignments for the class they were working on.  FINALLY, it all seemed to get done, and they could go print everything out for the 8th grade.  (Parent conferences were to begin at noon.  There was no time to spare!!)  I breathed a sigh of relief, but still had to write conference notes for every kid that isn't in my homeroom, to give to my other team members, just so they could talk to the parents about how Johnny or Susie was doing in the other classes.  That is approximately 95 papers...and I hadn't even started because I couldn't put the kids' grades on the papers until they were entered into the computer, which I couldn't get done until just before!!!  (Are you confused, yet?)  I spent the next hour or more working on those.  Got them done just as parents were beginning to arrive.  Whew!

I was handed a stack of report cards for my homeroom students to give to conference parents.  Then I was told that the grades for social studies were wrong, so I was given a correction sheet.  Then, a number of people who were rushing around trying to get things taken care of, managed to fix the glitch that had those grades wrong, and I was given a corrected stack of reports.  I unstapled the incorrect ones from the required meningitis letter that was attached, pitched them, and stapled the corrected ones on.  Then I went through the conference notes from the other three core subject teachers and stapled them together just so I wouldn't have to waste time rifling through papers when parents were there.  That made me a pretty expensive paper-shuffler!  A trained monkey could have done it...

One of the things I noticed in my own last-minute grade deal was that a number of the final grades for my classes were quite low--even for the accelerated class.  As expected, my phone and email box lit up on Wednesday after conferences.  Parents wanted to know why.  Shortly before my prep period on Wednesday--AFTER conferences--I noticed that three grade columns for each class were marked "language arts" (80%) when they clearly should have been marked "spelling" (20%).  All of my final grades were incorrectly calculated!!!!!  Arrrgggghhhh!

I went immediately to Andrew to explain my problem, then to the principal.  Andrew got on the phone with the software company (again) because it seems that only they can "unfinalize" a grade book--which is stupid.  The principal just told me to get a corrected report card and write a cover letter to parents.  By the time I left on Wednesday, Andrew said that the reports were corrected.  On Monday, we will issue new reports..and I will beg parents to forgive the inconvenience!

Today...my first day of Fall Break...I spent it doing laundry.  Six loads of laundry and one load of dishes. We took Meg's car to the repair shop last night to get the heater core replaced.  That meant I had to take the children to day care and her to work.  The rest of the day, I spent doing endless laundry. Six loads?  Plus a load of dishes.  And at the end of the day--when I went to pick up the children and Meg--you couldn't tell that I had done anything!!  I don't know where all of the money is coming from to do everything there is to do, but we just keep pluggin'.

This weekend is Ryan's turn to be with Daddy, and Robin will stay here.  We'll watch the weather and try to go to the zoo with her, etc.  We had a Skywarn net tonight, but not much materialized in Hendricks County.  Okay with me!!

I know how vain this sounds, but I can't get my hair to do anything around the craniotomy scar.  It's been a couple of months since I had a haircut, so I am going to get a cut tomorrow and hope that it helps.  The plain truth is that I didn't have much hair to begin with, and then the operation carved a bunch of it out at a critical area of my head where my hairdo is concerned.  It has essentially deteriorated my self-image.  I understand that I am the luckiest person in the world to be alive and kicking after a ruptured aneurysm.  I understand that God didn't give me much to work with in the looks department.  I have tried to work around that for years.  But this is just demoralizing!  The only scars I have on my whole body are on my face and head.  That's not fair!

Okay...so after the pity party, I'll just go to bed.  More laundry tomorrow.  Stuff happens!

 

 

Monday, October 15, 2007

Tard!

I am just flat-out worn out!  I have two more days of school before a 4-day break, but tomorrow will be a marathon.  Parent conferences from noon to 7:30 or so.

Today, I was trying to get my grades in (by the end-of-day deadline), but it wasn't to be.  Nothing I tried to do with the new software worked.  After school, the IT guy and one of my colleagues came to my room to help figure things out.  As it happens, I hadn't been given full authority to do the grades since I wasn't there at the very beginning of school.  At 4:15, they hadn't gotten the job done yet, so I left--in hopes that I can get it done in the morning before the you-know-what hits the fan.  I had a ton to do tonight--filling in conference papers for the rest of my team--but I ran out of steam before I began.  It will get done tomorrow...or it won't.  At this point, I don't much care. 

I hope the rest of the school year goes better than this one, so far.  I need a system for getting grades entered on the software on a daily basis.  Just haven't figured that out yet.

Time for me to hit the sack. 

Friday, October 12, 2007

The Great Kid Trade

This has been a marathon week.  No rest for the weary!  Today, to culminate the whole deal, we had Fun Night after school (sponsored by the 8th grade teachers), then I came home to fix a quick supper and send Meg and Robbie to Muncie. 

What to do with Ryan while they are gone tonight?  Knowing a teensy bit about little boys, I decided that we would have a fire in the burner on the patio and burn up some yard trash.  Well!  I didn't get to the biggest branch in the yard in time to get it cut up for the burner, but we burned smaller stuff....and paper, and foam bowls and plates and cups...and anything Ryan could get his hands on.  He kept talking to the fire, and whenever something flamed up, he cheered, "Yes!"  It worked!  He's in the bathtub now.  He has opted to sleep in Grandma's bumpy bed tonight, since his sister is gone.  Grandma has to get up early tomorrow, but he and Mommy don't.  I hope the day goes well for them...

I will be at Coats for Kids all day tomorrow.  I'm a little worried about it since my feet haven't totally recovered from last Sunday...but we'll git 'r done.  My grades are due on Monday and I can't get the software to do what I want it to do.  I really need to go there on Sunday and get stuff done, but I may be doing the zoo thing with Meg and Ry.  Who is going to do the laundry and clean the house???????  I need a maid!  (Would have to clean just to make things ready for a maid.  That's bad!)

Oh!  Found the parmesan cheese jar on the floor in the hallway today.  Hmmm...wonder how that happened.  It appears that the top was chewed, although not breeched.  Frodo the Junkyard Dog strikes again!

 

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Worn Out!

I don't have any answers to life.  My grandchildren are hard to get up in the morning because they are hard to get to bed at night.  The morning routine is fraught with tears and yelling.  The same thing with bedtime.  I am WAY behind at school and WAAAAYYY behind at home.  Nothing I do successfully changes anything. 

I'm trying to figure out why things are so much more stressful now than they were in the spring before I was off for the summer.  Meg reminded me that she was working at Kelly then--just 10 minutes away from home, and was picking up the kids, herself.  OH...so THAT'S why I could manage a nap before the dinner onslaught!

It particularly hurts me that the children are in a competitive/negative mode when I pick them up in the evenings.  Today, I was so fed up that I left them in the car when we got home.  I went back out to get them two minutes later, but they decided that Mommy would save them from wicked Grandma when she got home.  Shortly thereafter, I took Robin with me to Wal-Mart to do grocery shopping.  We were gone a long time.  Ryan was still in the bathtub when we got back, and Robin taunted him with a game that I had bought for them.  ARRRGGHHHHH!

Nathan and Megan have determined that there needs to be a split weekend, whereby one child goes to Muncie and the other stays here...then the reverse for the weekend after that.  This is the weekend to try that.  Robin is to go to Muncie and Ry is to stay here.  One on one, both kids are great.  'Tis the together thing that causes problems.  I keep thinking that there has to be another life for all of us, but I'm buried trying to decide how it will all work out. 

Where is my mommy when I need her????  Oh, yeah...**I** am the mommy now.  Hope I can live long enough to see an answer to the messes....

Monday, October 8, 2007

Harold

The fellow I wrote about yesterday--Harold, K9PZ--is back in the hospital.  He went to a doctor appointment this afternoon with an internist, and they put him in a wheelchair and admitted him in the hospital, thinking he has a blood clot somewhere.  Yesterday's event was just the icing on the cake.  He's had other episodes.  That was just the first one where he passed completely out...  So please remember my friend Harold and his family in your prayers.

This has been one of those days with no relief from first thing in the morning until late at night.  I have been on the go all day.  I need to go to bed, but the few minutes of Peggy Time are precious to me.  I will deal with tomorrow, tomorrow!

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Too Much Excitement for One Day, Thank You...

Today was "Colts and Coats".  The Salvation Army, in conjunction with Tuchman Cleaners and Channel 13 television, collects "gently used" children's coats for cleaning and redistribution to children in need of winter coats--and a major collection point is a home Colts game in Indianapolis.  Today was the day.  SATERN radio operators work the event, providing communications to various sites around the RCA Dome.  It works well.

Today, we had Harold K9PZ (and wife), working Twelfth Man Alley because he has season tickets and would be in that area anyway; Travis KC9HNS, who was riding with me; Bill KG9QJ (and wife) working as net control at Gate One; and me as a floater.  We checked in with the Volunteer Coordinator at 1:00 PM and knew we would be let off the hook along about 4:00 when the kickoff occurred.  It was hot--probably a record-breaker for Indiana in October--about 90 degrees.  Unfortunately, no one in TSA thought to bring water for the volunteers...and there didn't seem to be the usual street vendors anywhere around!

I was sitting on a concrete landscape barrier at Gate Two, talking to the volunteers there. toward the end of the deal.   We were going to be shutting down the operation in ten minutes.  I heard a female voice talking to Bill on the repeater we were using.  I had a little trouble understanding her, but it did get my attention because **I** was the only female on the net.  Finally, I heard Bill repeat what she was saying:  Harold had fallen and was hurt, and needed medical attention.  (The woman was a TSA volunteer who was taking coats near Harold's station.  I applaud her for getting on the radio and letting us know, even though she is not a radio operator!)  The 911 call went out.  I reached Harold before the paramedics.  (By his last transmission, I could tell that Travis was running in the same direciton.)  Harold was on his back on the ground with his head resting against a moving blanket against a concrete barrier.  He was conscious, saying he was okay but that he had gotten lightheaded and passed out, falling over backward.  He had bloodied a few places.  A couple of people were tending to him.  One woman official had his cell phone and was calling Joann (his wife, who was already in the dome at her seat)--to no avail.  (It was loud in there.  I doubt she could hear the phone!)  Finally, we had to send a Dome employee into the stadium to get her.  (She said later that the minute the guy approached her, she knew why.)  While she was making her way back out of the Dome, the paramedics came to look him over...then the Wishard Hospital ambulance.  The ambulance personnel got him up and into the air conditioned vehicle while waiting for Joann.  When she finally arrived, she determined that SHE would take him to the hospital, but in Hendricks County. 

As it turned out, Harold's blood pressure was way too low...and his blood sugar was high.  Compounded with the heat, he just keeled over.  He is taking BP medication that is working too well....  The hospital did some workups on him and finally let him go home, but he is following up with a specialist on Tuesday (an appointment already established before this all happened). 

I was really impressed with the personnel that assisted with Harold's emergency today.  Dome personnel were super-attentive, as were by-standers.  After they all left to take him for medical care, we had at least a mile walk to our vehicles.  I think I worked blisters on my feet!  The grandchildren had arrived by the time I got home.

Colts won.  Back to work tomorrow.  <sigh>

 

Saturday, October 6, 2007

It's Friiiiidaaaaayyy!

Weekends--blessed weekends--are treasures!  By Thursday evenings, I'm pooped.  By Fridays, I'm exhausted!  Most of the time, the grandchildren go to Muncie to be with their father.  (Meg drove them up tonight.)  As much as I love those little skunks, the peace and solitude around here after they depart is priceless.

I tried to do some housework tonight.  Really, I did...but...(there's always a "but" isn't there?)...I didn't have the energy that God gave a sloth.  I did fill a garbage bag with junk from the computer room/radio shack.  More to dig out!

I like my last period class at school.  It is my smallest class, and they respond well to me, so I feel like I can mess around with them.  (It doesn't always work, btw.)  In any case, we were all feeling goofy today.  For those that didn't have their memory selection memorized, I told them to write on their paper, "I am a failure as a human being because I didn't memorize the poem, EVEN THOUGH I had a month to do it, so I am now 20 points down in my grade."  Some did!  I hope I don't get into trouble for that, but the truth hurts.  Heh heh.

Meg was sick for two days this week and didn't go in to work on Wednesday and Thursday.  She slept on the couch Wednesday night.  When I got up in the morning, she told me she had heard a crash outside sometime in the wee hours of the morning, but was afraid to see what it was.  I opened the front door and immediately saw that our mailbox post was smashed, broken off at the base, with the boxes (the neighbor's and mine) destroyed.  I figured the smashee was drunk.  The bad part is that the mailboxes had been smashed last July.  Neighbor Fred fixed it all up for us both.  This time, however, I was surprised to learn that the person who hit the post turned it in to her insurance, and the replacement was to be paid for.  The lady came to our door yesterday to apologize.  It seems that a truck turned the corner widely, and she had to hit the post or him.  Guess it did over $2,000 damage to her vehicle.  Anyway, Neighbor Fred got the boxes replaced and up today...and submitted the bill to her insurance.  And I didn't have to do a thing!

We are breaking temp records in Indiana this week.  SATERN is preparing to help with the Coats for Kids event, but the temperatures have been so warm, I'm not sure how many needy folk will show up.  In other years, it has been cold and rainy on the distribution day, and the coats were most welcome.  This year?  We'll see!

Way late for bed.  Meg has crashed.  My turn!

 

Monday, October 1, 2007

Fighting Fruit Fries

I guess I can't make fun of little Ryan's pronunciations anymore because he has corrected his speech.  He now says "flies", but with a tongue flick directly behind his front teeth that sounds affected.  We have fruit flllies...

The garbage situation in the house was such that the main garbage can was overflowing, so we just started a new bag each day and took it out to the trash daily.  Several days ago, a cloud of fruit flies met us when we approached the regular garbage can.  Ack!  I took the stuff out and found the culprits:  a couple of apple cores that Robin had thrown into the mix.  We have been fighting the little buggers ever since. 

I developed a slight fever last week.  It made me feel just punk enough to go to bed and hope that the bottom wasn't going to fall out of my world.  I had no other symptoms.  Then, this weekend, I got a sore throat.  A quick look at my throat made me decide to stop at the Immediate Care place down the road from me...just to make sure I didn't have strep.  I don't!  The doc there did tell me that the eardrum in my bad ear was shriveled and probably not functioning...and he didn't think a mere tube insertion would help.  I need to get an appointment to see the ENT for an assessment.  I haven't been hearing well for a couple of years.  It may be a permanent condition now!

Trying to do SATERN work and still find time to go to the Bedford hamfest, etc.  We'll see!

My roomie has finally crashed, God bless her.  Time for me to do the same!