Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Later...

I couldn't write much before because "stuff" was happening, but all is quiet now.  Sort of.

Meg and the children came back from the Heffelman grandparents' neighborhood with lots of goodies and all wired.  Meg was still wearing her bumble-bee outfit from work.  She came home saying that Grandpa Phil (her former father-in-law) made her cry by hugging her and thanking her for working so hard to make the divorce situation work for the children.  It took me back to a day, many years ago, when my father-in-law thanked me for taking such good care of his grandchildren (my step-kids) and making it easy for us all to be together.  I can remember wishing that I had heard it from their father (my then-husband) but I was gratified knowing that someone had noticed how hard I worked at trying to make a good situation for everyone.  Except for the fact that the children no longer live with both parents, nothing else has changed...but it does take all of us to make it all work.  The Heffelman grandparents are on call (since they are retired) in case one of the children gets sick.  The rest of us try to keep all of the bases covered.  It's a huge job!

The Colts play the Patriots this Sunday evening.  I don't know if I can stand to watch!  In the meantime, I am trying to plan for my radio club's Christmas dinner/meeting.  It will be my last stroke as President.  I am bowing out, graciously.  I will not seek, nor will I accept any position as officer for next year.  I need a break!

Need to go get my bath so the doctor won't be grossed out tomorrow morning.  I will probably meet Meg for lunch after the appointment, then stop at the Girl Scout place to get some GS stuff for our little Daisy Girl Scout.  Then home for a nap.  If I don't get a nap, I'm going to be really ticked!

Ciao~

Happy Halloweenie!

How did it get to be Halloween already?  Meg and the children have gone to the other grandparents' neighborhood to get more goodies.  It has been a crazy couple of days!

This would have been my brother's 54th birthday.  He is no longer with us, and that still smarts...but I do think of him each Halloween.  <sigh>

I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow morning.  Decided to take the whole day off, only because I'm tired enough that I don't think it is worth it to attempt to go in to school in the afternoon.  Oh, well! 

The next big occasion is little Ryan's birthday on November 13th, to be celebrated the weekend before.  I suggested to Meg that we look into having it at McDonald's or some other kid place.  She said, "I presume that means you don't want to have it here."  Well...I'd love to have it here.  I'm just trying to figure out how we could get the place clean enough to have guests!  Ryan will be 4.  The question is, will we survive??

 

Friday, October 26, 2007

Blurrrrrr...

The week has been a blur of activity.  At school, things have been so busy that I haven't even had time to look at the news websites.  I am still mopping up after parent conferences with a couple of parents who need/want me to communicate with them on a daily basis about their child's grades/assignments.  Apparently the new software that we are working with isn't doing everything it's supposed to do.  I would tear my hair out, but I don't have much to rip!

Meg had a parent conference for Robin this week.  The news is good.  She is cooperative and hard working at school.  Doing well!  Today was the Kindergarten's Red Ribbon Walk (drug awareness).  The children walked around Swinford Park behind the Kindergarten Center/High School.  Grandma and Grandpa H. joined Robin, so she was a happy little girl.  Little Ryan can't compete with Robbie's school things, so he has to be louder and more spectacular (SpiderMan, etc.) in order to find a niche for himself. 

Several days ago, I got hit by an intestinal thing at the dinner table, so I went right to bed.  By the next morning, I was fine.  In fact, it was as if the whole thing hadn't happened.  That is the way I've been thinking about the craniotomy deal.  I have been so well that it is hard to remember that it occurred.  Of course, there are the scars...

Something has to happen here if we are to remain together in this little house.  I am looking into making the garage into a bedroom.  Don't know how many $$ it will take, and don't know where the money would come from...but we have to find private spaces for everyone.  Time will tell!

We are also looking at new holiday traditions.  This will be the first round of winter holidays since Meg and Nate have been divorced...and now the fun begins.  Who will be where, when?  I went through this when I was first divorced.  I think I got through it better than Meg did.  The children will be the main focus.  The rest of us, unfortunately, will manage...because we can.  Meg has had some trouble with events where "happy couples" show up.  Intellectually, she knows that there is no such thing, and that what one sees on the outside is not necessarily what happens on the inside.  Still, I understand her emotions.  Been there, done that!

Last weekend, we took Meg's car to the repair shop during my fall break so the heat could be fixed.  The dudes put in a new heater core to the tune of $600...but the problem still isn't fixed.  The car will go back to them, but it isn't easy.  Being without one car messes up everything for awhile.  Ugh!

For the first time in three weeks, both of the children will be in Muncie to see their father for the weekend.   I'm not sure how I will function!  The bed all to myself?  Wonderful!  I love my grandchildren, but I have to admit that it feels good to have the house to myself for a day or two.  More so for Meg!

More tomorrow...

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Ack!

It's been a few days since I have posted here.  It's been a busy week!  I don't have much "grown up" time these days--or spare time at all.  Will try to find some time tonight to bore you with the details of my life in the slow lane.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Destination: Everywhere!

I was up at 8:00 this morning, before the rest, to go get my hairs cut.  (All three of them.)  I brought cinnamon melts home from McD's.  Meg and Robin were up and had cereal.  Oh, well!  Robin and I went out into the yard to gather "firewood" for later in the day.  Lots of burnable limbs and branches!

The ultimate destination of the day was to be Beasley's Orchard in Danville, IN...so we headed out.  First, we stopped at JoAnn Fabrics in Avon, to find some vinyl to cover the kitchen chairs with.  (The previous cover job has been ruined by kid spills.)  Then, since it was lunchtime, we stopped at Wendy's.  Then the Meijer gas station to fill up the buggy.  Next, we stopped at Cookie Cutters to get Robin's hair cut.  (She is so bad about letting anyone brush her hair that Meg decided to get it cut short.  It's cute!)  After Cookie Cutters, we stopped at Sears Hardware so I could look for replacement blades for a cutter that I had.  Next stop:  Meg's bank to deposit some funds.  FINALLY, we got to the orchard.  Took a hayride to the pumpkin patch, checked out the store there, then headed to the garage sale of a ham friend of mine.  Bought some "Spidey" jammies for Ryan...then pointed the car back toward Plainfield via the country to look at the fall foliage.  We decided to stop to get KFC to take home...then got home to eat it.  Thereafter, Robin and I went back out to Wal-Mart to pick up things we needed for our "campfire" on the patio.  When we got home for good, we started a fire in the burner and had s'mores.  As near as I can figure it, we went at least ten places today.  Whew!

The plan for tomorrow is to take Robin to the zoo.  I really would like to stay home.  There is so much to do.  It is supposed to be a lovely day, however...so maybe it would be good to go with them.  I'm just too tired to think about it right now!

I called my sister tonight.  Haven't seen her online or heard from her in awhile.  Just wanted to make sure she was still among the living.  She is!  I love you, Shari.  We will be in touch about the holidays.  Just don't know how things will go...

Later...

 

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Kid Trade, the Sequel

Last weekend, we had Ryan while Robin spent the weekend with Daddy.  This weekend, Robin is here.  Ryan starts out with his Heffelman grandparents this evening, then goes to Daddy's in Muncie tomorrow with them. 

After we dropped Ry off, we went to a Chinese restaurant (which Robin likes), then went to the video store to pick up something she'd like to watch...and took a short trip to the grocery store to get marshmallows.  We lit a fire in the patio burner, roasted marshmallows, and made s'mores.  Robin is more cautious than her brother of the week before.  She didn't dance around the fire trying to make it more and higher.  She just liked roasting the marshmallows!  We also did a few leftover Fourth of July sparklers.  I think she thought it was a special night.  That was the general idea!

Have a lovely Saturday!

 

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Fall Break

Fall Break in Indiana is a 4-day weekend that used to be reserved for statewide teacher workshops.  No one does that anymore.  We just have four days off during a pretty time of the year, but since it comes directly after the end of the first grading period--and parent conferences--I think people just fall into a dead heap!

I went in to school a few minutes early on Tuesday thinking that I would get the jump on getting my grades in, since the software failure of the day before.  The computer dude met me in the hall and informed me that it wasn't fixed yet.  He had logged onto my computer as him--a system administrator--just so I could enter my grades.  But there was still one grade book/class that even he couldn't seem to make work.  At issue is the fact that I take two grades:  spelling and language arts.  Spelling is only 20% of the overall grade; language arts is 80%.  I had to set the categories by weight, then go back and tell each assignment what weight it carried.  One grade book was okay because it doesn't have assignments that carry different weights.  The IT guy and one of the school secretaries were going to work on the one class that "we" couldn't do while I worked on the other four.  I got my part done within two class periods.  Andrew (the IT guy) came in and asked me to verify the weight categories for the assignments for the class they were working on.  FINALLY, it all seemed to get done, and they could go print everything out for the 8th grade.  (Parent conferences were to begin at noon.  There was no time to spare!!)  I breathed a sigh of relief, but still had to write conference notes for every kid that isn't in my homeroom, to give to my other team members, just so they could talk to the parents about how Johnny or Susie was doing in the other classes.  That is approximately 95 papers...and I hadn't even started because I couldn't put the kids' grades on the papers until they were entered into the computer, which I couldn't get done until just before!!!  (Are you confused, yet?)  I spent the next hour or more working on those.  Got them done just as parents were beginning to arrive.  Whew!

I was handed a stack of report cards for my homeroom students to give to conference parents.  Then I was told that the grades for social studies were wrong, so I was given a correction sheet.  Then, a number of people who were rushing around trying to get things taken care of, managed to fix the glitch that had those grades wrong, and I was given a corrected stack of reports.  I unstapled the incorrect ones from the required meningitis letter that was attached, pitched them, and stapled the corrected ones on.  Then I went through the conference notes from the other three core subject teachers and stapled them together just so I wouldn't have to waste time rifling through papers when parents were there.  That made me a pretty expensive paper-shuffler!  A trained monkey could have done it...

One of the things I noticed in my own last-minute grade deal was that a number of the final grades for my classes were quite low--even for the accelerated class.  As expected, my phone and email box lit up on Wednesday after conferences.  Parents wanted to know why.  Shortly before my prep period on Wednesday--AFTER conferences--I noticed that three grade columns for each class were marked "language arts" (80%) when they clearly should have been marked "spelling" (20%).  All of my final grades were incorrectly calculated!!!!!  Arrrgggghhhh!

I went immediately to Andrew to explain my problem, then to the principal.  Andrew got on the phone with the software company (again) because it seems that only they can "unfinalize" a grade book--which is stupid.  The principal just told me to get a corrected report card and write a cover letter to parents.  By the time I left on Wednesday, Andrew said that the reports were corrected.  On Monday, we will issue new reports..and I will beg parents to forgive the inconvenience!

Today...my first day of Fall Break...I spent it doing laundry.  Six loads of laundry and one load of dishes. We took Meg's car to the repair shop last night to get the heater core replaced.  That meant I had to take the children to day care and her to work.  The rest of the day, I spent doing endless laundry. Six loads?  Plus a load of dishes.  And at the end of the day--when I went to pick up the children and Meg--you couldn't tell that I had done anything!!  I don't know where all of the money is coming from to do everything there is to do, but we just keep pluggin'.

This weekend is Ryan's turn to be with Daddy, and Robin will stay here.  We'll watch the weather and try to go to the zoo with her, etc.  We had a Skywarn net tonight, but not much materialized in Hendricks County.  Okay with me!!

I know how vain this sounds, but I can't get my hair to do anything around the craniotomy scar.  It's been a couple of months since I had a haircut, so I am going to get a cut tomorrow and hope that it helps.  The plain truth is that I didn't have much hair to begin with, and then the operation carved a bunch of it out at a critical area of my head where my hairdo is concerned.  It has essentially deteriorated my self-image.  I understand that I am the luckiest person in the world to be alive and kicking after a ruptured aneurysm.  I understand that God didn't give me much to work with in the looks department.  I have tried to work around that for years.  But this is just demoralizing!  The only scars I have on my whole body are on my face and head.  That's not fair!

Okay...so after the pity party, I'll just go to bed.  More laundry tomorrow.  Stuff happens!