I am certifiably nuts for inviting anyone over for a cookout today. Thank God no one took me up on it! Where I went wrong was in working on the garage over the weekend when the children were gone, instead of on the house. That automatically put me behind in getting the house put back together and catching up on the laundry detail. Then I spent one day this week doing my certificate-renewal-running-around, putting me further behind. Today, the children were home all day for the holiday. Well! There was no house-straightening done today, I can tell you! In fact, the clutter and confusion has just about done me in!
You see, I adore my grandchildren. (Of course, I adored them more when they didn't live with me!) All summer long, they have been here during the week and with their father in Muncie over the weekends. That means that we have the business end of things, and he gets the "funner" times. I was really looking forward to the holiday today, and also told the day care provider that I was keeping the children tomorrow to do something special while I still am on summer break. What was I thinking????
Little Ryan...the cutest little dude on the planet...is the hardest to deal with. If you don't acknowledge something he has said immediately, he will say it eight times more until he is sure you got the message. I fixed us a nice brunch this morning. He discovered the bicycle bells that his other grandmother gave the kids for Easter...and that started everything going. He wanted the bells on the bikes, then he wanted to ride his bike, then he wanted to race someone, etc. I got the bells on and told him that I'd watch him ride, but I wasn't going to ride myself...and no one was going to race him. (We had to go over the "rules" first.) Then Megan and Robin and he were going to take the dog for a walk around the block. Ryan wanted to take his bike. He was told no (because he won't stay with them.) He wouldn't take no for an answer, so he got left behind. (I heard the wailing from the back yard. When I finally went out to investigate, he was sitting on the lawn crying while his sibling and mother faded in the distance. I brought him in and plunked him in front of the TV. For a moment there, I thought he'd take a nap...but NOOOOoooooo... Then it was time for a light lunch.
Thereafter, I took the kids on a mini-shopping trip to Deals to get some things we wanted. Then there was the squirt gun fight in the back yard (which was fun until the kids were getting more water on the floor of the house while filling their guns than in the guns themselves...AND until I discovered that Robin had put dishwasher detergent in hers. (What a little skunk!)
Then it was time for our cookout. I haven't fixed homemade cheeseburgers in a LOOONG time, so that's what we had. Cheeseburgers and baked beans and chips and corn on the cob...and we ate on the patio. By this time, I was sweating buckets. Later, we had a birthday cake for the USA. Even sang "Happy Birthday" to our country and let the children blow out candles.. I think they liked that!
We had a mini-thunderstorm after dinner. Had to keep watching the weather to see if we were going to get rained out on our annual walk to Hummel Park to watch the fireworks. Finally, we figured we could chance it. Understand that I had NO TIME to get cleaned up. The humidity had turned my "do" into an Afro, and I had no makeup on--a scary prospect for the faint-hearted! We walked to the park, watched the great fireworks show that Plainfield puts on, then walked back home. It wasn't, however, without its trauma. Ryan again! He has very definite ideas about what he wants to do. If you change that, there is hell to pay. I thought Meg was going to end up having to carry him all the way home. Fortunately, he settled down before we got out of Hummel...then acted up again at home. Geez!
And, God help me, I have signed on for a repeat tomorrow! I am going to attempt to take the kids to Splash Island here in Plainfield. I will be undermanned for that, but I have been promising all summer to do something special with the children, and time is fleeting. Wish me luck!
On Friday morning, I will be wending my way to Zionsville High School where the Indiana State Police will be having their academy graduation exercises. One of my former students, Daniel Criswell (KC9AXD) will be graduating as a state trooper. I am so proud of that young man, I could pop my buttons! I had Dan in class as a Sophomore. He and his buddy Jason pushed my buttons; I even enlisted the help of his football coach to straighten him out. He wasn't the best student in the world, and when I saw that he was on my class roster as a Senior when I changed teaching assignments, I cringed. But Daniel had enrolled at Plainfield High School by then, so I didn't have him. He did, however, catch me online over Christmas break that year. I was at my sister's in Illinois, and he was at home in Monrovia. He indicated that he'd like to try ham radio. I told him an online site to try to study for testing. He studied for and passed the Tech test in what? Ten days??? I was floored! We got him a radio and got him on the air--with some rough spots from others that aren't worth mentioning now--and the rest is history. Dan grew up his Senior year in high school and became focused on his future. He wanted to be a cop. He worked toward that with determination. When he was accepted into the State Police Academy, (which included a reference from me), he was ecstatic. The six-month boot camp reminded me of the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman". Candidates were dropping like flies. Guys were required to run out in the snow and ice when someone screwed up. Dan hang in there. And now he will soon be "ordained" as Trooper Criswell. Wow! I'm going to be there to see that happen! It will be a first for me...
God Bless the USA!